The Friend by Sigrid Nunez
The Friend by Sigrid Nunez is about a woman’s journey with grief after losing her best friend, an elegy of sorts. It reads like a stream-of-consciousness journal of a writer, because no non-writer would write so elegantly in a diary. The prose is unique to me. I am definitely going to read other books by this author. Many of the sorrowful passages resonated with me on a very personal level since I lost my best friend recently too. Mine just happens to be a dog, whereas her’s is a human. Regarding how we speak on what those we lost “could have” done, or what they “would have” liked: “ Would have, would have. The dead dwell in the conditional, tense of the unreal. But there is also the extraordinary sense that you can become omniscient, that nothing we do or think or feel can be kept from you. The extraordinary sense that you are reading these words, that you know what they’ll say even before I write them.” One entire chapter was dedicated to an ending that she had wis...